Songwriting
Wills Lawyer On A Mission
Innovative
Music CD To Help Families Avoid Inheritance Fighting
J.L. Brent Special Features
We’re dividing all of mother’s things
Deciding on her rugs and rings
I can’t believe what’s happening tonight
We’re in a family fight
Can’t
split a painting on the wall.
Or share a table in the hall
I never dreamt that we could fall apart
It would break our mother’s heart
These are words from wills lawyer Les Kotzer's new song,
The Family Fight featured on an innovative new concept music
CD that he has recently released.
Kotzer
is a co-author of the book entitled The Family Fight - Planning
to Avoid It, which has hit a nerve across North America.
His book is designed to give families strategies and suggestions
for avoiding family fighting over inheritance. The book
has been featured across North America including Time Magazine
and CNN. "We are seeing an explosion of sibling warfare
over inheritance. It is so tragic to see once close families
destroyed often over so little. My partner, Barry Fish,
and I wrote the book in order to help create a bridge for
communication between adult children and their parents.
But I recognize that words on a page are not enough. This
is why I decided to turn my experience into songs,”
said Kotzer.
The CD is titled A Family United, A Family Divided - Songs
to Touch the Heart of a Family. The cover of the CD speaks
volumes. There is a picture of two young brothers, circa
1960, standing side by side in front of a Christmas tree.
There is also a picture of the same two brothers in their
50's standing back to back, their ties now broken. "It
can happen to any family," said Kotzer. It doesn't
take a lot to destroy a family. In fact, fighting isn't
just over money; it's also over memories of the personal
possessions in mom or dad's home."
Kotzer teamed up with composer Lewis Manné and producers
Wendy Watson and Chad Irschick to create this two song CD.
Lewis Manné and Wendy Watson have had over 200 songs
published and recorded and are best known for their music
on the Degrassi TV series plus numerous other TV themes
and scores.
Wendy
Watson, internationally acclaimed producer, arranger and
composer, combined with the expertise of Chad Irschick,
contribute the soul to these productions. Wendy and Lewis
were recognized last year with Her Majesty, the Queen’s,
Golden Jubilee Award medals for their contribution to music.
The
CD features the vocal stylings of Lewis Manné.
“When
I read Les' lyrics, I was so moved, that it inspired me
to compose music to capture the essence of his message.
Les' passion is saving families and I believe when people
hear the songs on this CD, it will bring the value of family
back into focus and make people realize family is the greatest
asset we have. A family fight is a painful and ugly experience
that you would not wish on your worst enemy and is even
more tragic when two siblings go from love to hate. I am
so proud to be a part of Les’ crusade,” said
Lewis emotionally.
The
first song on the CD, The Family Fight, is about two brothers
fighting over their mother's personal possessions. It’s
an up-tempo rock song that baby boomers can relate to because
it conjures up memories of the late 70's and 80's with fast
paced guitar arrangements by Michael Francis, driving rhythms
by Gord Sheard, Tom Czesniak and Rick Gratton, and vibrant
saxophone by Johnny Johnson. The guitar and sax do the fighting,
while Lewis' vocals expose the futility of this family fight.
"My
mother always said that her greatest treasures were not
in her safety deposit box but were in the faces of her children
in her family photo album,” said Les Kotzer. This
inspired him to write Photos in a Drawer. “Photos
in a Drawer is a touching, heartfelt song that will make
you pull out old family pictures and start reminiscing.
From my experience as a wills lawyer who sees families fighting,
too many people forget who they are and where they came
from. They forget the walks on the beach with their brother
or sister and they forget family picnics and important family
moments that were captured on film only to be put into a
drawer." This song, sung so beautifully by Lewis Manné,
will take you back into your past and bring back priceless
memories.
Faces
and places I haven't seen for years
All that time erases
The laughter and the tears
Photos in a drawer
“I
suggest people send this CD to their adult children or to
their siblings. It is my hope that the music and the message
will get families thinking and talking before it is too
late”, Kotzer says. "Music has always touched
our hearts, made us laugh, made us cry, and now hopefully
with this CD, will make us think about the value of our
family."
The
CD is not available in stores. It is available by calling
Kotzer's law office at 1-877-439-3999 or through his website
at www.familyfight.com. You can hear samples of his songs
on the website. For a limited time, if you call Kotzer's
office and order a copy of his book The Family Fight - Planning
to Avoid It, you will receive a free copy of the CD.