Lawyer,
Author Draws More Notoriety With New Song
Faces and Places
Roger Varley, Staff Writer
After the death of his mother, Rose, Les Kotzer wrote a
book of poems dedicated to her memory.
Among
the poems was one called Photos in a Drawer, which tells
of discovering some of her old photographs and the family
memories they held.
Mr.
Kotzer, a wills lawyer with Fish and Associates of Thornhill
and author of The Family Fight: Planning to Avoid It, a
treatise on preventing inheritance squabbles, has since
collaborated with composer/singer Lewis Manne to turn the
poem into a song as a way of helping families avoid fighting
over wills. But, he said, it is taking on a life of its
own.
PHONES
WENT CRAZY
The
song was first aired in June by an ABC-affiliated radio
station in San Francisco on which Mr. Kotzer, in his role
as a wills lawyer, was appearing as a talk show guest.
"They
played it twice during the show. Afterwards, the phones
went crazy" said Mr. Kotzer. "I had over 600 calls
and e-mails about the song. One person even likened it to
Art Garfunkel's songs."
Since
then, it has been heard on other American radio stations.
He
said the response made him realize he could touch people
with his lyrics. Now, as a new member of the Society of
Composers, Authors and Music Publishers of Canada (SOCAN),
he has teamed with Mr. Manne, whose credits include the
theme to the TV show Degrassi Junior High, to turn more
of his poems into songs.
Photos
in a Drawer and its companion piece, an up-tempo song called
The Family Fight, are in the process of being produced as
a two-song CD titled A Family United, A Family Divided,
which Mr. Kotzer will sell for $10 each or throw in as a
freebie to anyone buying his book.
"They
are meant to go together," he said.
John
Rothmann, the San Francisco radio host who gave Photos in
a Drawer its first exposure, was so impressed with the song,
he insisted on writing an endorsement for the CD cover.
"(Mr.
Kotzer's) advice, coupled with his CD, brings healing to
the soul," he wrote.
Photos
in a Drawer began receiving airtime last week on Toronto-based
FM station FOXY 88.5, the first Canadian station to play
his songs.
"It's
a dream for me to have this played on the radio," he
said.
The
second song on the CD tells of two brothers fighting over
their mother's "rugs and rings".
"It's
intended to show people how a lawyer sees the fight,"
he said. "It's not usually over millions of dollars,
it's about things like rugs and rings."
It
was after the response to the San Francisco show, however,
that Mr. Kotzer realized he could use the songs to combat
the family fighting he has become accustomed to seeing in
his practice.
GET
MESSAGE OUT
"If
I can get the message out in these two songs, I've done
my job," he said. "These songs might give people
a moment of sober thought before setting a lawyer on other
family members."
"Photos
in a Drawer might lead siblings to pull out their photo
albums and ask 'What am I fighting about?'" Mr. Kotzer
added. "My mother's greatest assets were in her photo
album, not in her safety deposit box."
He
said baby boomer siblings are the ones now fighting over
family wills.
"We
have to do something to stop it," he said. "Photos
is a softer way of saying you have to stay connected. I
have to bring them back to being a family."
He
said one person told him he was practising "emotional
law, touching the heartstrings".
"But
I'm still a wills lawyer," Mr. Kotzer emphasized. "I
still give free reviews of wills."
Information
on the CD and the book is available at www.familyfight.com
or by calling 905-881-1500, ext. 19.